This also means giving her something specific to do. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual.
My husband not only supports me going to church he encourages it because he knows that it is a part of me and makes me happy.
You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. He could come home from trips and I was too worn out to fake the good cheer.